Dating, minus the swiping.
You text a matchmaker. It asks good questions, then finds one person worth a drink. You both say yes, or nothing happens.
New York City. Matching and photos are for adults 18 and older only.
Example. Not a real person.
- Hi Sam. What did your best date ever have in common with your worst one?
- both involved karaoke honestly
- Noted. Would you rather meet someone who sings, or someone who claps?
- claps. loudly
- Okay. I'll ask before I introduce you to anyone.
What you get, and what you don't
You get
- One introduction at a time, with a short note on why.
- A first date plan at a public place, if you both want one.
- Your number stays private until you both choose to share it.
- A person on our team checks every introduction before we send it.
You don't get
- A feed of faces to swipe.
- Read receipts, streaks, or "someone liked you, pay to see who".
- Texts at 2 a.m. We keep quiet hours.
- Your details shown to anyone you did not say yes to.
How it works
- Join here. Your number, a code, your first name and age. Two minutes.
- Text with the matchmaker. Tell it who you want to meet and what you're done with. That stays between you and slop.date.
- Say yes or no. When the other person says yes too, we help you pick a time and a public place.
Who gets matched: adults 18 and older only. People aged 13 to 17 can join, but slop.date never matches them, never introduces them to anyone and never asks them for photos. Photos are only for adults who have verified that they are 18 or older.
We are not sending introductions yet. Join now, and the matchmaker texts you when introductions start in your area.
A replay from a test run
The people and messages are made up. We use simulated runs like this to test slop.date before real people use it.
Before you meet anyone
slop.date does not run criminal background checks or identity checks on members. We cannot promise that a person is who they say they are.
- Meet in a busy public place. Get there and home on your own.
- Tell a friend where you are going and who you are meeting.
- Never send money or financial details to someone you met here.
- Leave whenever you want. Text us to block or report anyone.
Ready when you are.
Joining takes two minutes. You can leave, export your data or delete it any time from settings.